If you knew that by reading this article, you could reach any goal that you set, would you read it?
Reaching any goal is possible—the key lies not in setting that goal but in the step before it, which is found in the questions, “What do you want?” and then “Why?”
So many people in sales (although this applies to every area of life) want to jump straight to putting numbers on a page: “I’m going to book this many appointments, sell this many contracts or make this much money.” They set some tangible goal. But these goals become nothing more than numbers on a page unless they become internalized. Each person needs to consider what it would mean to reach them and why reaching them is important.
In planning your goals for 2010 and beyond, you need to start with the “What?” and “Why?”
So, first, ask yourself: “What do I want?”
You may remember reading a poll asking the American people “What do you want?” The number one answer? “I don’t know.” Number two? “To be happy.” And number three? “Money.”
So what’s your answer? Do you truly know what you want?
Consider your definition of happiness. What is your definition of “enough” money? If you don’t set a goal that reflects what you truly want, you’ll always strive for more, which can ultimately leads to burnout, addiction or worse.
But even once you know what you want, you’re still not ready to put numbers on a page yet. Your next step is to run those desires and wants by the five people closest to you to see if they’re consistent with who you are and what truly makes you happy. If you’re not honest with yourself (even if you don’t realize it), they will be.
After internalizing what you want, the next step is to ask yourself: “Why do I want this?”
The tricky part here is that the answer is the question, and the question is the answer: “What do you want?” is the question; the answer is “Why do you want it?” So why do you want to make that much money or book that many appointments?
Here’s the key to asking yourself “Why?” If your why doesn’t really mean something to you, you’ll never achieve it because it’s not really worth making the effort to you.
This is the reason why this series is entitled “The Art of Goal-Setting.” The “what” and “why” are your art. The science, or numbers on a page, only comes after the art is complete. You get to put the colors on the canvas and be the artist of your life. Once you’ve internalized that, then there truly isn’t any goal you can’t reach or anyone or anything that can stop you.
In preparation for this coming year, begin planning around what you truly want to accomplish in life and why you want it. If you plan your goals around those two factors, you’ll set yourself up for success and be pleased with the outcome.
